You can have a suggestion regarding how to reappropriate this way of thinking the whole superior, then not seek outside help, or consider that there is someone or something that should be interposed?

You need to return to observe: observe without judging, knowing that everything that happens in your life is for you and it is a communication that helps you and not that reams against you. Just changing this attitude you will see the change of situations around you, because the tendency for you is to remain imprisoned in earthly facts, forgetting that in Reality You are the Divine who is having an earthly experience and not the other way around.

So, observe and consciously choose to activate the dialogue with Who You Really Are by listening. So observe, accept that all that is in your life is for you, and listen. It is not necessary to always have an answer, because waiting for the answer keeps you in wait, but the listening attitude is what will gradually change your life, because it puts you back in communication with your deep part.

The listening attitude is the attitude of emptiness, of non-pretentiousness. It’s like when you lie in the sun you let yourself tan: you are not waiting for the sun to tan, you are not thinking that the sun will tan you, you are simply lying down and letting you tan.
Is that clear to you?

Yes, it is.

In duality, the choices of earthly action will be fluid progressively as you become more neutral in doing them. So you will have to occupy yourself, you will have to make decisions; but when these decisions are guided by that state of neutrality, thus letting go of the weight of the past and the fear of the future in the presence of the here and now, then you will see that your choices will lead you to solution.

Excerpt of a Channeling from the Source session
of 17.12.2022