I wanted to know if I’ll ever be able to find a partner, that is: what should I do? … Change my attitude towards life? … And do you think this attitude towards life can also be changed by undertaking a Holistic Facilitation Program?

The Facilitation Program facilitates, but it’s not a magic wand. The magic wand Is You: it’s what you choose in your life; it’s the perspective you choose to have on life. Breaking free from the “victim-perpetrator-savior” triangle in which you’re fully immersed allows you to see yourself differently and therefore, to see life differently.

And if you see life differently, you approach it differently. But you need to abandon the belief that there is a cause and effect. For you to understand: if you move by saying, “I do this so I get that,” you remain in the realm of cause and effect, which has little to do with the Absolute Truth; if, on the other hand, you move (therefore making choices, observing life) with the sole purpose of manifesting yourself at your highest level, you will discover that everything else falls into place by itself, but the reverse is not a given.
Is this clear to you?

What does it mean” is not a given”?

Wanting to obtain something by “doing” without Being will not lead you to achieve what you desire. And if you temporarily obtain what you desire (since the mind is very strong and you are a Creator Being), if your Fundamental Frequency (which is Who You Really Are) does not resonate at the same frequency as the incarnational vibration you are experiencing, what you have illusorily achieved will change again and disappear from your life.

In order for you to understand: what you call “desires” are the egoic desires of the “little self.” So for you, the question is: “Deep down, what is the greatest desire?” When this desire is to manifest yourself at your highest level, whatever that entails, then your perspective on life will begin to change. Until then, you will observe through the eyes of the “little self,” which is not wrong, since there is no right or wrong; it is an experience, and everything is experience. And you are in earthly incarnation to experience. The only thing that makes a difference is choice. So for you, the question is: “What do you choose?”
Is that clear to you?

Well, let’s say that the problem right now is indeed choosing.

It will be a problem as long as you believe it is. Go to the Center of your Center, listen, and trust: you will see things change without having done anything.

Excerpt of a Channeling from the Source session
of 12.04.2025