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Single for too long<\/h1>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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By Shima Abedinzade<\/a> of Pixabay<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n

I haven\u2019t found the right person for me in “ages”. All I\u2019m looking for are people, always the same type, who wouldn\u2019t go anywhere in a stable relationship. What should I do?<\/p>\n

The first thing you have to “do” is “stop doing”. As you know, your partner tells you about your attitude to Life, so keep in mind that the same kind of person always comes along. Since everything is One and this One is You, you know that this is not a case, but it is sending you a recurring message not because there is something wrong with you, but because you are ready to go beyond an attitude that does not belong to you as a Divine Being who is performing an earthly experience and has come to rediscover the Truth about Who Really Is.<\/span><\/p>\n

For you to understand: you are ready to go beyond the attitude maintained for a long time when your earthly experience was in your exclusively earthly awareness. You have made choices and experienced the Reality of Who You Really Are. So now to keep in the attitude that is not consistent with this puts you in front of experiences, situations, people who send you back the invitation to change attitude. You know what I mean?<\/span><\/p>\n

Not at all.<\/p>\n

The attitude that is extremely directed towards the satisfaction of material needs in this phase of your Path is for you a superficial and inconclusive attitude. However, you tend to keep the habits of thought and action you\u2019ve always had. So within you is this split between the old view of Life and the new view of Reality. The partner who does not arrive or if he arrives is inadequate shows you your current stasis on the change of attitude. Yet you are ready to go beyond an attitude that no longer belongs to you, to embrace a new attitude to Life consistent with the rediscovery you have accomplished. Is it clearer now?<\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know how.<\/p>\n

You have to let go of expectation and focus on “outside you”. Your attention is strictly focused on people, so keep your attention on separation, as if the people who approach you were not You, but quite distinct from You. This vision of separation is what you\u2019re ready to let go of. But as long as your attention is in the search for man, it cannot be at the center of your Center in the search for the balance between male and female and the openness to a new attitude to Life. Is it clearer now?<\/span><\/p>\n

Yes.<\/p>\n

So go back to the Center of your Center and work on the reunification of opposites, letting go of a man\u2019s desire and expectation in your Life, for it is desire and expectancy that are blocking the process.<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n

Excerpt of a Channeling from the Source<\/em><\/span> session of 22.12.2023 <\/span><\/p>\n

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