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A while ago, I worked on control, because I had to urinate frequently: I’d wake up to go to the bathroom during the day and even at night. I thought I’d overcome it, but a couple of months ago it came back. This is causing a problem. I think I’ve overcome the control phase. Can you tell me something?<\/p>\n

This is one of the attitudes you’re ready to abandon. When you say, “I’ve worked on it why do I still have it?”<\/em> you deny that you are a flow. You are a vital flow, therefore in constant movement and constant expansion.<\/span><\/p>\n

What you have overcome (and in fact for a certain period you did not have the symptoms) reappears in your life not because you have not truly overcome (you did so in that phase of your Path) but now you are in a new phase, and with respect to the new phase you have to let go of control.<\/span><\/p>\n

What you would like to control is the “little self” and the True Self; what you want to control is not letting the programs take over. But you can’t do this: you can’t stop the programs from doing their work. You chose them, and this is your earthly Path of Expansion. But you can work harder to recognize them and not follow them in your reactions and therefore in your daily actions.<\/span><\/p>\n

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