{"id":61385,"date":"2026-04-23T19:57:25","date_gmt":"2026-04-23T17:57:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.maestr-ale.org\/?p=61385"},"modified":"2026-07-12T12:17:46","modified_gmt":"2026-07-12T10:17:46","slug":"i-neglect-myself-and-lose-myself-for-others","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.maestr-ale.org\/en\/i-neglect-myself-and-lose-myself-for-others\/","title":{"rendered":"I neglect myself and lose myself for others"},"content":{"rendered":"<section class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\"><p>[vc_section][vc_row][vc_column width=&#8221;3\/4&#8243;][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_text et_pb_text_0 et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\">\n<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\">I neglect myself and lose myself<\/h1>\n<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\">for others<\/h1>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]<a href=\"https:\/\/www.maestr-ale.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/geralt-ai-generated-9354212-1-scaled.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-60576 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.maestr-ale.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/geralt-ai-generated-9354212-1-260x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"260\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">You tell me I experience separation from others, yet I give so much to others. Sometimes I don&#8217;t exist, I bend over backwards for others. And I can&#8217;t understand&#8230; why I feel this Oneness, neglecting and vanishing myself for others. I feel very loving toward others and I don&#8217;t feel separate. Therefore, I don&#8217;t understand this <em>&#8220;separation from others&#8221;.<\/em> I do for others even when I&#8217;m tired. Therefore, I can&#8217;t understand.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #b811b8;\">You are a channel of Love. Your dedication and generosity are tangible. Where you stumble is in the judgment of others&#8217; response. So, give yourself completely with Love, but with your gaze distracted by the response of the one who has received your Love.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #b811b8;\">When the answer doesn&#8217;t match what you expect, separation sets in. Then you begin to feel victimized, disappointed, and desperately trying to separate yourself from that aspect of yourself that&#8217;s being mirrored in that moment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #b811b8;\">Your whole life has brought you here, so that you can now reap the fruits of your experience to go further.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #b811b8;\">It&#8217;s not a rational process: it&#8217;s your <em>genealogical programs<\/em> that are at work and accompany you to a new Expansion. The rational part, the mental body, can guide you in making decisions to move forward.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #b811b8;\">You are Love. And Love doesn&#8217;t judge, doesn&#8217;t condemn, doesn&#8217;t act waiting for a response. 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