Lately I have been asking myself if my choice “to be alone”, is functional for my personal growth, to get to better know myself, rather than being an escape suggested by the fear to get into relationships with other people, or to get into important relationships. This is the doubt: sometimes I feel that is important for me to stay alone, other times, I feel that this is heavy…. and I would like to have the possibiilty of sharing, be able to listen and get more awareness…… How can I interpret this situation and this doubt….. putting myself the question. How sincere am I about this choice?

In Reality, inside your question, there is already the answer. Now I invite you to observe, and you were right, that there are moments that for you is important to remain alone, in order to stay “inside”, then you said that in certain moments, you feel the weight of loneliness. Now I am asking you: when you were married and you lived in a family, did not you feel the weight of loneliness?

For sure; quite a lot, yes, even more.

Therefore is not what is surrounding your physical body, but is the contact with Who You Really Are that is filling up your life. Once you have stabilised, experimented, made a daily routine the relationship with Who You Really Are, then you can open up to any type of choice, that can be to stay alone, or not, This is irrelevant.

What on the other side is for you now, is the peremptory invitation to keep the contact with Who You Really Are, and let you be guided. In that moment, you will discover opportunities, situations that so far skimmed in front of you unseen, because they could not be catched by a dual vision, but now they can be catched by the Absolute Vision ( the Source that You Are), and that you are ready to embrace.

Excerpt of a Channeling from the Source session
of 14.11.2024