What’s the right attitude with ex-partners? I wonder whether it’s the right thing to share experiences again. Because I tend to always stay in touch with people who perhaps still have feelings for me…

I have a question for you: you know that All is One…

Yes.

…that everything that appears to you to be something else is You…

Yes.

… and that your partner talks to you about your attitude toward life, and therefore ex-partners talk about an old attitude toward life. So I ask you: what drives you to maintain a relationship and spend time with your ex-partner? What is your self-justification, because that’s where the message lies for you.

Well… because he’s someone I feel good with and enjoy seeing; someone I enjoy talking to and interacting with…

Yes…

…which is anyway different from having a stable relationship…

…and what happens if you decide to break it off completely (inside yourself, not outside, since the outside is your projection)? What does the thought of breaking off all contact with someone do to you?

Well… definitely a sorry, because he’s a person I’m close to… On the other hand, it might give me the idea of doing a reset, but then in reality I’d be sorry.

Why would you be sorry? Are you afraid of making a mistake?

No.

So what?

Well, because I still feel… I love him…

So, the message for you is that you’re still holding onto an old attitude toward life, one that no longer belongs to you, because ultimately you’re attached to that attitude and therefore you won’t let go. You’re holding onto the old even though you know it no longer belongs to you; you’re holding onto the old out of a kind of caution, attachment, comfort zone: I know it, I know where it’s taking me… and that’s it. You’re not open to the new at this stage, but you’re ready for the new. Do you understand the difference?

Yes.

Now, your difficulty in listening to my words is that at this stage you can’t detach your thoughts from the person, so everything I tell you is justified by you saying, “Yes, but he’s a good person, I love him, why should I interrupt…” And no one is telling you to interrupt, but to observe your attitude: the attitude is that of attachment, attachment to something that no longer exists.

Excerpt of a Channeling from the Source session
of 15.02.2026